So you meet someone you really like but you find out they _______ (fill in the blank). Whether it be smoking, drinking, have a crooked tooth, or you can't stand their relative. You can't try to change them. They are the only one that can decide if they want to change or not.
Let's say its smoking. I've dated my share of guys that smoke, it's not my favorite thing but I have never and will never ask a guy to quit for me. First of all they will blame you if you ask them. And second they are the only one that can decide to quit. I had a guy I dated who knew I didn't like it so he said he would quit. I told him if you want to quit do it for you not for me because I'm not asking you to. So he tried to kept saying he was going to but he never did. Which was fine with me. He smoked before I met him, and he still smokes to this day. I didn't try to change him because I liked him the way he was smoking and all. I'm kinda crazy and accept people flaws and all. I may not like their flaws but its what makes them who they are. We all have flaws it's what makes us human and what makes us different from everyone else.
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